Wired Differently...

The way men and women are wired is very different from each other. 

As far as men are concerned, the way they think is if I get the best house and the best car and the best jewellery and the best vacation for my wife and kids, they will be happy. And that's what they focus on and work towards, assuming it should produce the desired results of approval and appreciation from the lady, which is the driving fuel for the man. This is also the man’s way of showing that he cares for his family. In the process, he ignores the fact that she wants to be noticed, heard and cared for. 

Surprisingly, the way the women see the whole equation is very different. The way they think is - if the guy does not care for me and if he doesn't love me, what's the use of the expensive house and the vacation and the jewellery and the new car? It's meaningless to run after them and work towards them if I'm not even sure that he enjoys, values and cherishes my company. 

The homes where joy resides is where at least one of the wife or husband, or better still both understand this fact and are willing to speak the others’ language....